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Manifesting this energy: You’re the type who’d gift a stranger a full astrology reading just to be nice, right? Yeah, that’s you. But now? You’re 30, your exes have moved on, and your Scorpio Venus? S…
Manifesting this energy: You’re the type who’d gift a stranger a full astrology reading just to be nice, right? Yeah, that’s you. But now? You’re 30, your exes have moved on, and your Scorpio Venus? Still lurking, but you’ve learned to dial back the drama. Except… holidays. The holidays. That time of year when every ad screams “Buy your SO something magical!” and your brain starts whispering, “But what if I’m not actually in a relationship?” Spoiler: You’re not. But you’re still so into them.
Here’s the thing: Gift-giving in a situationship is like texting someone “I miss you” after a one-night stand. It’s sweet, but it’s also a recipe for confusion. Relationship coach Jacob Lucas says, “If you’re not committed, giving gifts creates false expectations.” Imagine buying someone a concert ticket, only to get a $5 gas card in return. You’re not just exchanging presents—you’re testing boundaries. And honestly? It’s exhausting. Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn adds, “Even small gifts can make someone feel like they’re owed something.” So yeah, that Chipotle card? It’s not just a gift—it’s a silent demand for clarity.
And let’s be real: The holidays are a minefield. You’re already buying gifts for your fam, your squad, and your coworkers. Why should your situationship get a pass? Because they’re not your people. They’re the ones who text you at 1 a.m. with “I miss you” but then ghost you for weeks. They’re the ones who make your winter feel less bleak but also make you question your own feelings. You’re not obligated to invest in someone who’s not investing in you.
So what’s the fix? Skip the gifts. Use the holidays as a chance to reflect. Are you hoping for something? A sign? A push? Ask yourself: Is this a gift, or is it a signal? If you’re still torn, maybe plan a cozy movie night or splurge on yourself instead. After all, you’re the one who’s giving everything—why settle for less?
💫 Should you gift your situationship this season, or is it time to cut the cord.
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❓ People Also Ask
How to plan a situationship holiday without commitment?
Focus on shared activities and fun without pressure. Set boundaries, communicate needs, and prioritize enjoyment over expectations. Keep it light and flexible for a stress-free holiday.
What are common situationship holiday challenges?
Balancing time with others, avoiding assumptions about future plans, and managing expectations. Clear communication and setting limits help navigate these challenges smoothly.
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